The Magic of Jo Malone

Before leaving for dinner last night, I sprayed on Jo Malone’s Pomegranate Noir cologne.

Instantly I found myself transported to my friend Deborah’s guest bathroom one warm morning.  Next to the sink, she had set out Pomegranate Noir hand cream and cologne for her guests.  I softened my hands and sprayed my hair.  When I rejoined my three friends on the veranda, my essence enveloped everyone.

Deborah teased me, “I forget how much I love that scent.”

We laughed as we sat around her table under the fan, sipping Russian Caravan tea, telling about our most recent trips to Syria, Ireland and Oman and recounting stories of our mothers, fathers and children.

Living overseas is like a pomegranate.

You move to this entirely different land with its own smooth skin.   At first the round red orb is like a completely different planet, one you have never seen before.  Then after a bit of study and adjustment, you figure out how to peel the skin.  When you open the fruit inside you discover lots of different cultures, both expat and local.  Generally the people are quite interesting and before you know it, you find you have all these amazing friends from around the globe.  Each is packed with tiny, sweet stories about the lives they have led.  The richness of your time together stains your hands.  Just as pomegranate juice is known to keep us young, the memories of your expat years stay with you forever.

Then there’s the noir.

The Pomegranate Noir lingered on my pillow, waking me.  And in the blackness of the night, I began to think about my friend Deborah who returned to Australia last summer.   My rational brain knows being an expat means my friends will eventually go home or depart to new assignment in a new country.  We can stay in touch.  Someday I will visit her.

But still – my heart misses my amazing friend and I weep as I remember sitting together in her garden surrounded by palm trees and bougainvillea.

The Pomegranate Noir of expat life.

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5 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. 3rd Culture Children
    Oct 28, 2011 @ 17:30:36

    Greetings for another expat family… Currently posted in Brazil. Thanks for sharing your impressions…

    Regards, http://3rdculturechildren.com

    Reply

  2. Sarah F.
    Oct 28, 2011 @ 18:28:24

    Well said, Eva.

    Reply

  3. Deborah Hope
    Oct 29, 2011 @ 11:59:31

    I wept too, reading your blog. Maybe it’s a good omen though – unpacking boxes today, I came across one labelled “Perfume”, where I found the Jo Malone Pomegranate Noir. And then I looked at my email …

    Reply

    • Eva the Dragon
      Oct 29, 2011 @ 13:34:14

      Very interesting. The thought was out there and it found you. But don’t be sad, it just the emotion of friendship.

      Reply

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