A Saudi Cocktail

A run into Saudi to renew my visa starts with a tense breakfast.  The tension only diminishes when we see the Bahraini shore.

As my mere black-enveloped presence in the Immigration Office might cause a riot, Mojo drops me off at my place of choice while he takes care of business.

I used to wait at a nearby Starbucks and read, but two trips before a mutawa, a religious “policeman”, knocked on the locked door during prayer.  A lone man, he marched into the family section to berate the Saudi women who were not praying and who allowed their scarves to slide off their hair.  He did not speak to me but he scolded the baristas.  The last visit the staff kicked me out during prayer.  I stood outside sweating after they locked the doors.

Driving in Saudi Arabia is not known to be a relaxing experience.  An everyday commute is more like a NASCAR race than the jammed, but orderly, Los Angeles freeways.  The constant vigil for sober drivers in the right lane deciding to take a left turn in front of you to chase down women on the other side of the three lane highway combined with road construction are the first ingredients for a Saudi Cocktail.

After an hour of sipping that cocktail, even the most agreeable couples explode.

Running late as usual meant we arrived an hour before mid-morning prayer.  The Dhahran/Khobar road was under construction in both directions without any exits or signs.  After driving twenty minutes in a circle that took us no where, Mojo shouted.

“Just drop me off at the Dhahran Mall,” I shouted back unable to stand the tension any longer.

He did only to find his ten-minute drive took seventy-five minutes due to a three car collision.  When I got his first text that he had just arrived I had barely walked halfway around the huge mall.  As I rounded Gate 9, prayer was called and all the businesses shut down.  I sat down and there across the aisle was the newly opened Pottery Barn.  Ah – a taste of home.

After prayer I rushed over to buy picture frames before Mojo showed up.  I was the only woman in a store with ten male salesmen who did not know the merchandise and one old Bangladeshi man who had the unenviable job of dusting the thousands of glass items on display.  I knew exactly what I wanted.  I walked through the store and discovered Thanksgiving turkey dishes I would never find again.  Finally I found the gallery frames way in the back behind the rugs.

Loading my items on the counter, I got another text.

“Eight guys ahead of me.  What are you doing?”

“Pottery Barn opened here.”

“Uh oh” was his response.

I still had time.

I raced to see the king-sized sheets.

Another text.

“Three guys ahead of me.  Officer decided to take a break.”

Still more time.  I circled around again and discovered even more things I never knew we needed.  Thirty-seven items in eight shopping bags later, I got the final text.

“On way, meet you at Gate 3.”

“Sorry,” I texted back, “ you MUST meet me at Gate 9.  I have too much stuff.”

He pulled up and the man with the trolley loaded the trunk.  As Mojo complained about his experience all the way home, we got to the middle of the causeway where immigration and customs met.

Still on the Saudi side, I pointed out the line with only one car but the immigration officer’s window would be on my side, the passenger side.

“You are willing to hand him the passports?” Mojo asked.

“Sure,” I said.  “It doesn’t bother me.”

As I rolled down my window, Mojo reached across me and handed the passports over to the young uniformed man.

“I didn’t want to insult him,” he whispered.

Just breathe, I said to myself.  I omitted the OM in case that might insult someone.

On the Bahrain side, 75% of the customs lanes were closed as they did something to the roads.  Like a herd of cattle being prodded with electric pokers, all the beeping cars funneled into the two open lanes.  Thinking of the trunk full of packages, I decided it was time to lift my sunglasses and wave to the customs officer when he bent over to tell Mojo to pop the trunk.

Mojo got out to review my purchases with the officer.  It did not take any time at all.

“Funny,” Mojo said.  “I remember you saying just this morning before we left how you were not going to buy anything.  You want to be able to walk away from everything we have.  And now you bought all this stuff.”

“That was before you screamed at me.”

“I screamed at you?  I didn’t scream at you.  I was screaming in frustration.”

“But I was the only one in the car….”

And that’s how our outing across the bridge ended – with a Saudi cocktail.

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8 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Sarah
    Oct 03, 2012 @ 20:03:28

    Prohibiting women in Saudi from doing anything official is obviously a capitalist plot to sell stuff to the women while their men are standing in bureaucratic lines.

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    • Eva the Dragon
      Oct 04, 2012 @ 07:56:28

      As I wondered around without any purpose except to kill time, I watched other women (and men) doing the same. I was very struck by the fact that the only thing to do was shop and eat whether alone or with friends. It’s what happens when our creativity is stifled and limited as much by our own perception as well as government regulation.

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  2. cindamorey
    Oct 03, 2012 @ 20:16:26

    Wow… Eva you are amazing being able to handle all that stress and chaotic energy! I am in awe of you…. interesting story… thanks for sharing..

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    • Eva the Dragon
      Oct 04, 2012 @ 07:59:12

      There are many many other women and men who do the same. I am just the one to tell the story. Unfortunately in many parts of the world, women especially live in conditions like this 100% of the time. The stress is very high in the Middle East. That’s why we must appreciate our freedom.

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  3. Debbie Al Asfoor
    Oct 03, 2012 @ 22:49:49

    Doesn’t it make you appreciate Bahrain, our beautiful desert isle, despite the chaos that surrounds us at the moment.

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    • Eva the Dragon
      Oct 04, 2012 @ 08:04:30

      Yes. And I am very aware of why the people who come to Bahrain from other countries including the UK love living here. That’s why it is so sad for us to see those imported stresses surfacing here. As well as the physical ugliness that accompanies it.

      As ANKI, the ancient Sumerian God said Blessed is this land where no woman cries.

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  4. winfredpeppinck
    Oct 04, 2012 @ 17:52:55

    Thanks Eva, enjoyed reading your comment and it mirrors a number that I have seen which similarly focus on the difficulty of ‘things’ in SA. Hmmm, might try North Korea first!

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    • Eva the Dragon
      Oct 04, 2012 @ 20:18:41

      The good news for KSA is the King. Today I saw in the news the religious police’s powers were being “curbed” and will be banned from carrying out searches without prior approval from the governor.

      Top down management is the only way to get things done there. Long live King Abdullah.

      Reply

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